With my wife being pregnant, I've been more busy taking care of her. And I will be back soon to update my life. But I'm soo excited cause our new baby:
IT'S A GIRL!!!!
She is gonna be so spoiled just like her mother and big brother!
ME
ME
Thursday, March 29, 2012
Sunday, December 25, 2011
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
On my phone right now and it won't let me upload a pic that I wanted to which sucks. But wanted to wish everyone a very MERRY CHRISTMAS!! Found out my wife is 8 weeks pregnant. So we got a great early Christmas surprise. I have been doing little romantic things for her constantly and always showing her she The MOST important person in my life. She comes over EVERYONE no matter who they are. I want to make a longer post later with more of my thoughts. To the mikki person go get help for causing your son pain! He should have hit your husband back like I hit my dad back, but he was probably too afraid to the poor boy. It's parents like you who should never have kids! You are the worse parents in the world. If your son is that angry, you don't ever cause hen pain, you take them to a doctor who can tell you WHY he is doing those things! I cannot wait until the day comes where even swatting kids is illegal. There are ALWAYS other ways to teach your kids right from wrong. And from emails I see stormy's husband is still being cold and cruel and abusive and hurting his wife. My wife yelled at me the other day, but apologized cause of the stress. I forgave her and knew she didn't mean to hurt me. Why would I hurt her back. My friends have confirmed I am a great husband and the ones saying my wife walks over me are the wrong ones. I love they my wife won't take no shit from me if I was like those and tried to order her around. God may have said for wives to submit, but my mom pointed out he bible also tells BOTH spouses husband and wives to submit to each other. I most def put my wife over myself. That's my choice never did she tell me to.
Anyway, Caleb got spoiled even more this year. We love the look on his face when he sees what santa brought him. He has my blonde hair and blue eyes and everyone calls him my mini me. Well my mini me had a great Christmas. As long as he and my girl are happy than so am I. I hope if we have a girl she has brown hair and green eyes like her mommy. I know I'm an awsome dad, one thing I have no problem bragging about. I refused to hit my kids for ANY reason and I have never even felt like it or even raised my voice and my son is one hard headed toddler. He calls me daddy butthead when he's frustrated with me and I like it. It's fine with me. He almost always tells me he loves me though. And he is his mommy's little shadow. He is protective over her and will tell off anyone who tries to argue with her or he thinks is hurting her. He hates sharing her even with me lol. He said the new baby can't have his mommy. But I think he will be a great big brother. Time to ge my wife to stop cleaning and get her to sit and me clean. Again hope everyone has a great Christmas! And to the ones who thought Nic wanted the DD life she said she would set everyone straight in that. She said she will be making it known soon she never wanted me to cause her pain and is beyond thankful I am a real man and would never make her feel any pain from me for any reason.
Anyway, Caleb got spoiled even more this year. We love the look on his face when he sees what santa brought him. He has my blonde hair and blue eyes and everyone calls him my mini me. Well my mini me had a great Christmas. As long as he and my girl are happy than so am I. I hope if we have a girl she has brown hair and green eyes like her mommy. I know I'm an awsome dad, one thing I have no problem bragging about. I refused to hit my kids for ANY reason and I have never even felt like it or even raised my voice and my son is one hard headed toddler. He calls me daddy butthead when he's frustrated with me and I like it. It's fine with me. He almost always tells me he loves me though. And he is his mommy's little shadow. He is protective over her and will tell off anyone who tries to argue with her or he thinks is hurting her. He hates sharing her even with me lol. He said the new baby can't have his mommy. But I think he will be a great big brother. Time to ge my wife to stop cleaning and get her to sit and me clean. Again hope everyone has a great Christmas! And to the ones who thought Nic wanted the DD life she said she would set everyone straight in that. She said she will be making it known soon she never wanted me to cause her pain and is beyond thankful I am a real man and would never make her feel any pain from me for any reason.
Thursday, November 24, 2011
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!
Hope everyone has a HAPPY THANKSGIVING!! things have been a little busy around here lately and I haven't had time to make a better post but I will soon. I was gonna add a cute pic I had but my phone is being stupid right now and won't let me. Gotta help clean our kitchen and get Caleb dressed. I do most the cleaning and I love it. I'm gonna try my best to enjoy this day with my family and hope everyone does the same!
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
I'M BAAACKK!!
The pics above are from a family reunion my brother and cousin had last week. It was good to see my family that I haven't seen in a while. While I hate my father, I still love his siblings. They have admitted my dad was wrong for laying his hands on me and my brothers and my mom when I was a kid. I still thank my dad, cause he taught me how to be the opposite kind of father and husband he was. He wanted all the control and thought it was a man's God given right to control his wife and kids. Nope it isn't. A man should cherish and love his wife and put her first and never, EVER cause her any physical or emotional pain. Recently, I found a blog called http://stormy-shelterinthestorm.blogspot.com/ and a few months ago she had a blog post where she said her husband made her go to bed when he did and she couldn't sleep and kept tossing and turning. He ended up getting a clothes hanger out the closet, turning her over his knee and spanking her and then made her go to bed and she cried herself to sleep. She erased the blog post because of some negative comments she got. I guess she can't handle the truth about her husband. Also she kept the blog a secret for months and just recently told him. One of her friends updated and said that her husband would give her a spanking every day for 9 weeks for not telling him. He had given her a limit for how long she could go online which was only an hour. He spanked her for just being upset and in a bad mood and not wanting to cuddle. My wife said with a husband like that she would never want to be touched by him. She had even asked him once about not doing DD for a while but he said NO. That is abuse. When someone doesn't want that lifestyle anymore and the spouse forces it or won't stop it than it does go more into the abuse territory.
I spoil my wife and don't try to hide it. I love her Then there is another blog: http://hermischiefmanaged.blogspot.com/ where my wife left a comment and they put her in spam lol. Cause they can't handle the truth. Again if a man lays a hand on a woman without consent it is ABUSE. But hey if people want to be stupid and allow their husbands to abuse them than they can go ahead. the men would be in jail if it was my wife. this one: http://alovesz.blogspot.com/?zx=cd12fb083bde8b56 thinks it is a husband's God given right also to lead his family and a woman
HAS to submit. And even claims a man can make all the decsions and the wife has to go with them. Like the At&T commercial where the husband signs them up for a family plan and she gets mad. He shouldn't have signed them up first without consulting his wife. And this one: http://tryingtolearnlearningtotry.blogspot.com/ is a lot like Stormy's abusive husband. He gets a kick out of punishing his wife and enjoys it. He doesn't care if he hurts her or she is afraid of discipline. And he is almost as worse as Stormy's husband and should have his ass beat by a real man. Or his wife should get some guts and tell him where he can go. My wife and I would be divorced if I was like any of these men. I thought BabyMan was bad with his wife but these men are even worse. My wife said the women make her sick by allowing the men to do these things. My wife is afraid of a spanking so I could also never ever think of hurting her in this way. I don't even yell when she yells at me. I rather go to hell than cause her any kind of physical pain. Any man who really loves his wife more than himself would never ever hurt her. And spanking hurts regardless of what they say and it is the HUSBAND causing that pain. I think they are trash. Women should stand up to these men and hit back. Any man who wants to boss his wife around is pathetic and needs mental help cause he has problems. No man should be able to boss her around.
On the romantic front of my marriage, I've spent the last few months spoiling my wife even more and always doing a lot of romantic surprises for her. I have cleaned our house, bought her a car, and left notes constantly and text expressing how much she means to me. She does not tell me to do any of these things. I do them myself cause I want her happy. Her being happy is ALL that matters to me. I am a better man than any of those men above. The pics at the beginning of this blog post are pics of some of the romantic things I've done. We went to Virginia Beach and have just gotten closer than I thought possible. Even when we have disagreements, I listen to her and even if she gets mad and yells, we work things out and I NEVER say harsh things to her. All marriages can do it. If a couple has to resort to violence than they need professional help.
One last thing I meant to add is my wife helps pay our cell phone bills and internet bill. She paid the internet bill, she already said if I had made her have a limit on the web, she would have told me "screw you! Then I'm gonna turn off the internet and you won't use it either!" I agree with her. There should never be a limit on the web. If you don't love your spouse enough to spend quality time with them and rather spend more time on the internet than you shouldn't be married. My wife loves me and loves us spending time together cause I am so gentle. If I was anything like those men, she would be afraid and never want to be near me. I would never risk that. And I do have a life, a better marriage than Stormy's husband, or Kay and the others. Because I hate my wife being in pain and do whatever to prevent her being in any kind of physical pain.
Thursday, April 7, 2011
MY SOULMATE
Here is another poem I just recently wrote for my beautiful wife:
Since the 1st
day I saw u I already knew
From that day forward
I would end up with u
Standing hand in hand,
Me looking straight into your eyes,
You make me feel
Like I’m flying high in the skies
I love u with all my heart,
I love u with all my soul.
It’s the way we bond
That’s making our love grow.
I got a few words to tell you,
I got a few words to say
They are coming from the heart
I mean them every day.
As simple as it is,
Coming 4rm me to u,
As much as it means,
BABY GIRL I LOOOVE U!!!
Women who I was told had a thing for me have tried to cause trouble with my marriage but I am in love with only one woman. They can say whatever they want but it's not gonna come between us. It's also funny how we are getting critizized for our parenting skills..because we don't spank or swat at all. Just because we never do no matter what he does doesn't mean our kids aren't disciplined. We do. As long as a kid has some disciplined they won't grow up to be a criminal. I was beat by my dad and drunk and partied heavily as a teen. It made me want to rebel more.
Nic has also been in a depressed mood lately. Very quiet and crying all the time. Any disagreement she has with a friend makes her cry. I stayed home from work with her a few days to help her feel better. I do whatever it takes to cheer her up. I've gotten some emails too from two men (I could give out names but I won't right now) saying I'm a piece of shit for a man. Because I do anything my wife wants and make her happy and don't discipline her. That's MY CHOICE, I know what emotional abuse is and she does not do that to me. But my judgement of some DD marriages is when the man wants it and basically tells his wife theirs no going back now and seems to get a lot of enjoyment over causing his wife physical pain. If a wife wants it and asks for it and is TRULY happy with it than that's great. But I still wouldn't be strict with my wife. If she wanted out she could always get out of it (a discipline). There's a blog someone showed me called "Shelter From the Storm" and she sounds just like my friend who was in a DD marriage. She really doesn't want the spankings and fears them but her husband doesn't seem to care and told her she will never get out of the lifestyle and he is boss. That is WRONG and yes ABUSE. People think I'm saying DD is wrong period. To me if the wife asks for it and really wants it and the husband can do it and they are BOTH the happiest they've ever been and she's never afraid than that's great.
I just know my wife inside and out. We may have only been married 3 yrs but I have known her since we were kids and we have a special bond. Yes we argue but I never yell no matter what and she has watched how she reacts and things she says in an argument. She will walk away if she thinks she is gonna yell or say the wrong thing to me because she said she wants to treat me like I treat her. And any of our friends can tell anyone how in love we are and happy we both are. She's been abused so she feels like if she's loosing control she lashes out and yes I let her. She has this fear that she will somehow loose me but I'm always showing her I'm not going anywhere. I love doing the little suprises I do for her and being romantic and cooking and cleaning. She doesn't tell me to do anything, in fact she will try to wash dishes after I cook but I take over and do it anyway or sometimes she washes and I dry. I don't agree it's a woman's place to cook and clean.And btw: Mitch at the Husbandly Touch Blog already informed me if his wife refused to submit to discipline and said no more ever he would stop even the lifestyle means a lot to him. I respect that even if I don't agree with a lot of things he does to her and his rules. My wife is such a fiery personality it would take completely breaking her spirit like her ex did to make her submit.
Anyway, I ranted to long. Until next time.
Since the 1st
day I saw u I already knew
From that day forward
I would end up with u
Standing hand in hand,
Me looking straight into your eyes,
You make me feel
Like I’m flying high in the skies
I love u with all my heart,
I love u with all my soul.
It’s the way we bond
That’s making our love grow.
I got a few words to tell you,
I got a few words to say
They are coming from the heart
I mean them every day.
As simple as it is,
Coming 4rm me to u,
As much as it means,
BABY GIRL I LOOOVE U!!!
Women who I was told had a thing for me have tried to cause trouble with my marriage but I am in love with only one woman. They can say whatever they want but it's not gonna come between us. It's also funny how we are getting critizized for our parenting skills..because we don't spank or swat at all. Just because we never do no matter what he does doesn't mean our kids aren't disciplined. We do. As long as a kid has some disciplined they won't grow up to be a criminal. I was beat by my dad and drunk and partied heavily as a teen. It made me want to rebel more.
Nic has also been in a depressed mood lately. Very quiet and crying all the time. Any disagreement she has with a friend makes her cry. I stayed home from work with her a few days to help her feel better. I do whatever it takes to cheer her up. I've gotten some emails too from two men (I could give out names but I won't right now) saying I'm a piece of shit for a man. Because I do anything my wife wants and make her happy and don't discipline her. That's MY CHOICE, I know what emotional abuse is and she does not do that to me. But my judgement of some DD marriages is when the man wants it and basically tells his wife theirs no going back now and seems to get a lot of enjoyment over causing his wife physical pain. If a wife wants it and asks for it and is TRULY happy with it than that's great. But I still wouldn't be strict with my wife. If she wanted out she could always get out of it (a discipline). There's a blog someone showed me called "Shelter From the Storm" and she sounds just like my friend who was in a DD marriage. She really doesn't want the spankings and fears them but her husband doesn't seem to care and told her she will never get out of the lifestyle and he is boss. That is WRONG and yes ABUSE. People think I'm saying DD is wrong period. To me if the wife asks for it and really wants it and the husband can do it and they are BOTH the happiest they've ever been and she's never afraid than that's great.
I just know my wife inside and out. We may have only been married 3 yrs but I have known her since we were kids and we have a special bond. Yes we argue but I never yell no matter what and she has watched how she reacts and things she says in an argument. She will walk away if she thinks she is gonna yell or say the wrong thing to me because she said she wants to treat me like I treat her. And any of our friends can tell anyone how in love we are and happy we both are. She's been abused so she feels like if she's loosing control she lashes out and yes I let her. She has this fear that she will somehow loose me but I'm always showing her I'm not going anywhere. I love doing the little suprises I do for her and being romantic and cooking and cleaning. She doesn't tell me to do anything, in fact she will try to wash dishes after I cook but I take over and do it anyway or sometimes she washes and I dry. I don't agree it's a woman's place to cook and clean.And btw: Mitch at the Husbandly Touch Blog already informed me if his wife refused to submit to discipline and said no more ever he would stop even the lifestyle means a lot to him. I respect that even if I don't agree with a lot of things he does to her and his rules. My wife is such a fiery personality it would take completely breaking her spirit like her ex did to make her submit.
Anyway, I ranted to long. Until next time.
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
Her Knight
I'm still here. Just been busy since the New Year started. Hope everyone has had a good year so far. I have a lot to discuss. Right now I'm playing Dr. Joshua and getting Nic better from the Flu and Bronchitis. She made a status on her FB about every girl dreams of finding her knight in shining armor and she already found hers. It reminded me of the first poem I ever wrote her. Here it is:
Your Knight
I wanna be your knight
my love, my shining star
your kiss is heavens sweet caress
my life is what you are
without you my life 's such a mess
its hard to let you out of my sight
i wanna be your knight.
In shining armor i' ll ride
just to hear " i love you" with a sigh
i lie in bed with you by my side
i won 't let you go without a fight
i wanna be your knight
whenever you're in fear or pain
when you feel no one cares
you'll find me near
look around, you'll see me there
your the cause of my every delight
thats why i wanna be your knight.
She said I'm definately living up 2 my vow. And that makes me very happy!! She's been getting a lot of comments on her FB from other females complimenting her on having a wonderful and great husband. Two told her they were jealous and one said she hoped to find a husband like me one da but doubted it. I am sooo glad I make my wife happy and will never change til the day I die. My wife's happiness is my #1 priority! Too bad the husbands who want to beat their wives and put them in pain cause they have a sick enjoyment from it won't learn. I still think their wives should beat them back! Anyway, gonna go cook my beautiful and sexy wife a romantic dinner! And make her feel better! Be back soon!
Your Knight
I wanna be your knight
my love, my shining star
your kiss is heavens sweet caress
my life is what you are
without you my life 's such a mess
its hard to let you out of my sight
i wanna be your knight.
In shining armor i' ll ride
just to hear " i love you" with a sigh
i lie in bed with you by my side
i won 't let you go without a fight
i wanna be your knight
whenever you're in fear or pain
when you feel no one cares
you'll find me near
look around, you'll see me there
your the cause of my every delight
thats why i wanna be your knight.
She said I'm definately living up 2 my vow. And that makes me very happy!! She's been getting a lot of comments on her FB from other females complimenting her on having a wonderful and great husband. Two told her they were jealous and one said she hoped to find a husband like me one da but doubted it. I am sooo glad I make my wife happy and will never change til the day I die. My wife's happiness is my #1 priority! Too bad the husbands who want to beat their wives and put them in pain cause they have a sick enjoyment from it won't learn. I still think their wives should beat them back! Anyway, gonna go cook my beautiful and sexy wife a romantic dinner! And make her feel better! Be back soon!
Saturday, December 25, 2010
HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!!
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* FROM OUR HOUSE TO YOURS !!
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˚ ˛ •˛• ｜ 田 田｜ 門｜ ˚ And a Happy New Year ... to all my
Readers
Friends and Family.. ... Thank You and enjoy 2011 The Webb
family!!!
For our 3rd Christmas together, I've made sure Nic has a wonderful one and Santa spoiled Caleb this year! More later! We are having a white Christmas too!
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* FROM OUR HOUSE TO YOURS !!
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˚ ˛ •˛•* / ______ / ~ ＼。˚ ˚ ˛★ 。* 。 *★ 。* 。*
˚ ˛ •˛• ｜ 田 田｜ 門｜ ˚ And a Happy New Year ... to all my
Readers
Friends and Family.. ... Thank You and enjoy 2011 The Webb
family!!!
For our 3rd Christmas together, I've made sure Nic has a wonderful one and Santa spoiled Caleb this year! More later! We are having a white Christmas too!
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