Men who physically hurt their wives and think they have the right to tell their wife what to do and control them are not REAL MEN!! They are stupid and really should get their asses beat by a real man! Let me tell you something I would hope my wife would kick my ass if I ever tried to tell her what to do or yes even spank her! Every woman should do that to their husbands who don't love them enough to never physically hurt them! Oh and give them praise when they obey? WTF? Our wives are not dogs!! My wife would be very insulted if I praised and said "I am very proud of you for being good and obeying." She is not my pet! And to "girl up"? Why don't some men "man up" and stop being afraid of independent bossy women? Women are actually mentally stonget and wiser than a lot of us men! If I told my wife take your meds or get me something spank you with then she would say get it your damn sef and then walk right out and to divorce court. I understand why some women ask for a man to be in control but I will never understand how a man can tell his wife he will be in control and just spank her and cause her pain and not feel bad about it! If you really feel bad about causing pain then you just don't do it. I would really love to see these women put the asses in their place and show who is really the boss. That is the woman! (and in this paragragh everyone may know who I'm talking about but hey if not then I am not afraid to say the name) The sadistic preacher who loves hurting his wife, macho asshole.
They can easily go to the cops if they really don't want a spanking and you did it anyway. My wife would even though she loves me just to show me it isn't right that I forced her. That is why my wife's ex got a beat down after she finally got him back for for forcing her to submit.
Once Nic asked me could she go out with friends. I just really wanted to spend a night with her just us, so I said "no you can't go." she got pissed and told me "well too bad I am going anyway and if you don't like it then get over it. Only way you can stop me is by spanking me and you how I am terrified of them" I know she is terrified of them. And I would NEVER hurt her like that no matter what. It would kill me inside too. So I told her she could go. She smiled then and kissed me and told me she would be back later. Well she went out the door but about 2 mins later she came back. She said she wasn't going and wanted to stay with me. She said she saw how I really wanted to spand alone time with her so she stayed for me, for us. We had an amazing night, I made it so she didn't regret not going out. She was happy. I think she was testing me and I know I passed. Had I spanked her, yeah she would hagve stayed but she would have only been staying out of fear and pain. My hands are pretty big and strong from my work and the army so honestly I know they would hurt worse than an implement. My swear to her is: "my hands are GENTLE 4EVER AND EVER AND STRONG BIG AND PROTECTIVE AND THEY ARE SHELTER BECAUSE THEY COVER YOURS. I would never use them cause her pain.
I even stop doctors from hurting her. If she has to have bloodwork well they better give her something to not feel the needle cause I will not let anything or anyone hurt her. If I hurt her I would just turn around and do whatever I could to make the pan stop. I do that now when she is hurt. So how would spanking her do any good if I would just make the pain stop? I would feel like someone punched me in the heart if she was in pain from me.
The reason some women submit to their husbands is for fear of the pain of them spanking them or they see it makes their husbands happy to spank them. Although to intentionally want to inflict pain on the love your life is uncomprehendible to me. Erotic is one thing but for punishment? I agree with the ones who are on the DD forum I mainly post on that do it because it relieves stress and its not because the wife "misbehaved". I wouldn't even hit my dog with a newspaper so why in the hell would I my wife? I would laugh if the wife beat the shit out of the husband right back they would deserve it. Us men are not above our wives and not too good or superior to be punished either.
If you truly love your wife you will never hurt her no matter what. We are supposed to love them more than ourselves. Well I do and my wife gets whatever she wants from me. That is how a real man treats his wife! I will continue this later. I want to go seduce my wife. We had a great date night and my mother has our toddler son for the night so..... ;)
Oh and we taught our son to hit back anyone who hits him. Including his grandparents who think it is their right to swat him. My mother was warned if she tried to swat him if he misbehaved then she would never her grandson ever again. And he bit her hand back for smacking his hand for trying to touch the stove and we praised him for it. Only bad parents who don't really care about causing their children pain hit them and those people should never be blessed with children! Yep I said it. Bad parents spank and don't really love their kids enough to learn other non-physical ways to discipline. My son could hit me and I will never hit him back. Anyway...more later.
I got the candles lit and the romantic cd (my main song for her is "My Girl") I made playing for her and I think shes got all my little romantic love notes I left around the house for her. Sooo...gotta go for now! And a little something else about me: I was my wife's first lover. She gave me her virginity, I didn't even hurt her then! She felt no pain when I first made love to her and she was afraid it would hurt because all her female friends and family told her their 1st time hurt bad. But she said she was amazed at how passionate and intense I was and she didn't even feel a tiny pinch! No pain at all! Although, since we went from good childhood friends to lovers , she went through the feeling akward afterwards. But we got through that and got married! So that was the biggest praise and compliment she gave me then she was so happy she gave her virginity to me and hoe amazed she was that it was so wonderful and 0 pain!
ME
ME
Friday, October 15, 2010
Thursday, October 7, 2010
Introduction
This is just a little about why I decided to start posting and some about me. I recently found some blogs where I stated my opinion and I did think I was pretty respectful but apparently the author didn't agree with me. I feel like if you can't take some critizism then don't post anything because everyone won't agree with you but yes you can state opinions in a respctful way. My comments weren't approved only because I didn't agree with the author's husband's way of doing things. But that will be in another blog itself. I have a lot to say on that. But first some about who I am:
I have been married to my soul mate for two years now. Nicole (Nic) and I met through her older brother Kris. She and Kris are only 11 months apart. I met Kris in 1st grade. His little sister was the opposite of him. He was outgoing and she was shy and quiet until she got mad then the girl had a ferocious temper (still does lol). Kris and I realized we only live a block from each other but I mainly spent more time at his house because mine was a war zone. My dad was strict, controlling and abusive to my younger brother William and me and also to my mother. She would try and protect us and get hit herself. Although Will only got hit once because I made it my job to protect him. When my dad got mad at how we "misbehaved" he would use either his hand or his belt then his fist. He would make me take down my pants and underwear and beat me. I did become fearful but as I grew older I only became angry at him. When he tried to hit my brother when he was 7 and I was 14, I got up in his face and told him he would have to go through me first. Well he tried but I hit back and we fought. I am proud to say I kicked the sorry bastard's ass. When I was 16 he left us. Walked out to go to work and didn't come home. He showed up just two years ago but hell no I won't ever forgive him.
I now think it is wrong for any parent to hit their kid for ANY reason. Yes even a little swat is wrong and should be illegal. You really do not have to hit a kid to teach them even a toddler. Yes I know technically a little swat is not abuse but I think it is still wrong. Even when my son now tried to touch the stove or when he ran out towards the road we did not swat him. We used non-physical discipline to teach. He is also not one of the docile quiet easy kids either. He has his mother's rebellious, head strong personality. But we took time to learn how to teach and discipline without ever laying a hand on our son. Is it easy? nope. But we love him more than anything to never cause him pain from us. Even if he doesn't always listen right away or even the 2nd or 3rd time. But once he realizes his mother means no and won't give in he listens. I am more likely to give in so I have to walk away and let her be the firm one.
If you have read this far then thank you. I just now realized the time when Nic told me she was going to sleep and was I coming. So I will finish this tomorrow. Good night all.
I have been married to my soul mate for two years now. Nicole (Nic) and I met through her older brother Kris. She and Kris are only 11 months apart. I met Kris in 1st grade. His little sister was the opposite of him. He was outgoing and she was shy and quiet until she got mad then the girl had a ferocious temper (still does lol). Kris and I realized we only live a block from each other but I mainly spent more time at his house because mine was a war zone. My dad was strict, controlling and abusive to my younger brother William and me and also to my mother. She would try and protect us and get hit herself. Although Will only got hit once because I made it my job to protect him. When my dad got mad at how we "misbehaved" he would use either his hand or his belt then his fist. He would make me take down my pants and underwear and beat me. I did become fearful but as I grew older I only became angry at him. When he tried to hit my brother when he was 7 and I was 14, I got up in his face and told him he would have to go through me first. Well he tried but I hit back and we fought. I am proud to say I kicked the sorry bastard's ass. When I was 16 he left us. Walked out to go to work and didn't come home. He showed up just two years ago but hell no I won't ever forgive him.
I now think it is wrong for any parent to hit their kid for ANY reason. Yes even a little swat is wrong and should be illegal. You really do not have to hit a kid to teach them even a toddler. Yes I know technically a little swat is not abuse but I think it is still wrong. Even when my son now tried to touch the stove or when he ran out towards the road we did not swat him. We used non-physical discipline to teach. He is also not one of the docile quiet easy kids either. He has his mother's rebellious, head strong personality. But we took time to learn how to teach and discipline without ever laying a hand on our son. Is it easy? nope. But we love him more than anything to never cause him pain from us. Even if he doesn't always listen right away or even the 2nd or 3rd time. But once he realizes his mother means no and won't give in he listens. I am more likely to give in so I have to walk away and let her be the firm one.
If you have read this far then thank you. I just now realized the time when Nic told me she was going to sleep and was I coming. So I will finish this tomorrow. Good night all.
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