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Saturday, December 25, 2010

HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!!

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* FROM OUR HOUSE TO YOURS !!
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˚ ˛ •˛• | 田 田| 門| ˚ And a Happy New Year ... to all my
Readers
Friends and Family.. ... Thank You and enjoy 2011 The Webb
family!!!


For our 3rd Christmas together, I've made sure Nic has a wonderful one and Santa spoiled Caleb this year! More later! We are having a white Christmas too!

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

The Way U R

This is a song that reminds me of My Beautiful wife:


Just The Way You Are
by Bruno Mars

Oh her eyes , her eyes
Make the stars look like they ’re not shining
Her hair, her hair
Falls perfectly without her trying
She’s so beautiful
And I tell her every day

Yeah I know , I know
When I compliment her
She wont believe me
And its so, its so
Sad to think she don’t see what I see
But every time she asks me do I look okay
I say

When I see your face
There’ s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are

And when you smile ,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are
Her nails , her nails
I could kiss them all day if she ’d let me
Her laugh, her laugh
She hates but I think its so sexy
She’s so beautiful
And I tell her every day

Oh you know , you know , you know
Id never ask you to change
If perfect is what you’re searching for
Then just stay the same
So don’t even bother asking
If you look okay

You know I say
When I see your face
There’ s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile ,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile

Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are
The way you are
The way you are
Girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are

When I see your face
There’ s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile ,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are!

Monday, December 20, 2010

I LOVE WINTER

I kept trying to post a pic with this blog post but the damn thing was being difficult, so maybe later I can get it to work. I've been pretty busy the last month. We celebrated Thanksgiving and I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving Day! We went first to my family's house, my mom had dinner early around 1pm. It wasn't an easy holiday cause it was the first major holiday without my youngest brother Will who died in a car crash last April. I will get into that but for now I rather not. My mom did ok, I caught her upset a few times but I think she tried to be strong for her family. Me and my other younger brother, Andy tried to help her the best we could while dealing with our own internal sadness. It helped just to have Nic by my side. And our son Caleb helped too. He started a food fight and of course Andy had to help our 2 year old. After we ate with my family, Nic and I went to her family's to eat. Her family got together for dinner at her uncle and aunt's house. Her two older brothers and cousins and her mother were all there. We watched the football game and the kids played not so nicely together. It made me realize, I am veerrry happy with my life. I got a beautiful, hot and sexy wife and an adorable son who everyone says looks just like me with his blonde hair and big baby blue eyes. But I think he has his mommy's personality.

After Thanksgiving, on Nov. 28th was Nic's birthday. I made sure it was special for her. I started with a breakfast in bed. I had a card and 2 roses on her food tray. The card stated how much I loved her and named some reasons she was so special to me. We went out to a movie. While we were out, my brother Andy who stays with us helped me set up a romantic surprise. When we got home, there was a candlit dinner in front of our fireplace set up with a bunch of roses and ballons. Andy had followed my instructions and left a trail of battery operated christmas candles and love notes leading to a flower petal filled bubble bath in our garden bath tub. She had tears in her eyes when she saw everything and told me I was soo amazing and she was sooo lucky. The day ended with us making some intense love and she slept pretty damn good afterwards. The only thing that went bad is she got a phone call from her mom after breakfast that hurt her feelings but I was determined not to let anything ruin her day. I am usually always a determined man to make sure she's as happy as she can be. Yes no matter what I have to do. But I will never hurt her.

As for after, she's had some pain in her foot and did go to the doc on her own. He took xrays and said nothing was broken but gave her a ankle brace and another appointment for Dec. 22. He may have to do an MRI. I massage her foot whenever I can. We also had some snow recently that kept us inside for 2 days. I loved those days. She cuddled up in my arms under a blanket by the fire in our den and we watched movies. And well our sex life is never boring and we make love every single day. We find the time for each other no matter what even with work. The only time we are apart is when we work. And sometimes, she stays at my work and watches me work.

It is funny how on my last blog entry I got blasted for some stupid false accusations. I don't have to prove shit to anyone. And as for my wife cheating, well anyone that really knows us knows that is impossible. We are together so much neither of us would have time to cheat. Besides we have both been cheated on by exs and know what it feels like. One woman even suggested to my wife on a blog my commented on that Nic needed a sound spanking. Why? Only because Nic spoke her mind? Good for her! I was happy to read my wife's comments. Besides what would a spanking do? They would only make Nic fearful to speak her mind. And NO way in hell is my wife gonna be afraid of me. Nic doesn't force me to do anything I don't want to do. Yes she is spoiled, but I LOVE spoiling her. It's funny some people don't think I am a true man cause I am romantic to my wife and I put her above me and do whatever I can to make her happy.

I will NEVER be any cause of pain for my wife NO MATTER what she does. And I'm gonna say it again: Men who cause their wives physical pain are not REAL MEN!! And I don't think they truly love their wives. I did playfully spank an ex girlfriend of mine. I got no enjoyment out of it. I did hurt her too and she liked it. I didn't even hit hard and I used my hand and a paddle and my belt, which she begged me to use. She wanted to "role play". She said my hand was by far the most painful implement I used. I wasn't happy to hear that and I wasn't turned on at all by the spanking game. My wife has even offered to let me spank her erotically too, I refused. I will NOT cause her any pain, not even playfully.

She is my world! And why in the world would I use my hands to cause her any kind of pain?? Even if some think for her own good? It would never be good for her. It would tramautize both of us. I would always stop when she wanted me to and if she really said NO I wouldn't do it. She is scared of spanking because of her abuser. I wouldn't do anything that would cause her any pain and make me loose her. It is sad some men rather hurt their wives than loose them. I rather us get divorced than my baby girl ever feeling any pain from me. But despite what others think, Nic and I are BOTH happier than we can express and more in love than any couple I know. Our friends do comment on how we can't keep our hands off each other and how intune to each other's feelings we are. They say we still act like newlyweds. We hardly ever argue. She is my EQUEL she is not below me. And yes I rather be below her than me above her. Fuck what the Bible says about women HAVING to submit to us and us men HAVING to be Head of our wives and children. If that was a law that said I had to discipline my wife when she "didn't" behave then I would go to jail instead. And I don't think men have a right to be ruler and lead over our wives. Condemn me for it if u want, but I don't care. Oh and I don't give a fuck if anybody is sitting around laughing at me, I feel a lot of pity for women who's husbands claim to love them with their whole hearts and then cause them pain. Yes my wife is better than any of those women because she won't allow it and I wouldn't want to do it. So yeah I am a better man.

My wife was brutally abused sexually and phsyically. She still suffers from depression and gets triggers that upset her. No matter what I would NEVER put her in any physical pain to try and help her or pull her out of it! I make sure she doesn't even have nightmares anymore. I start whispering in her ear and singing the song "MY GIRL" to her and telling her she is safe and with "her Josh" which is what she started calling me when we were dating. It stops her nightmare because she stops whimpering or moving around in her sleep and sighs sometimes and snuggles closer in my arms. And me holding her and being attentive to her and making love to her and talking to her has always made her feel better. And guess what? Even if it didn't I still WOULD NOT HURT her!! But my way has always worked.

Now since it's reallly cold, it's my favorite time of the night where I get to go cuddle with my soul mate in my arms tightly and watch some tv or other stuff...

Sometimes she will snuggle in my arms and read a book til about 3am. And no I don't mind and it's pathetic to give her a curfew to make her go to sleep. Sick idiots. Til next time....I'm gonna go pick up my baby girl and carry her upstairs under our warm covers and "hold her tightly all night in my big strong arms" as she says. Although, what we do before that is just as great!