The pics above are from a family reunion my brother and cousin had last week. It was good to see my family that I haven't seen in a while. While I hate my father, I still love his siblings. They have admitted my dad was wrong for laying his hands on me and my brothers and my mom when I was a kid. I still thank my dad, cause he taught me how to be the opposite kind of father and husband he was. He wanted all the control and thought it was a man's God given right to control his wife and kids. Nope it isn't. A man should cherish and love his wife and put her first and never, EVER cause her any physical or emotional pain. Recently, I found a blog called http://stormy-shelterinthestorm.blogspot.com/ and a few months ago she had a blog post where she said her husband made her go to bed when he did and she couldn't sleep and kept tossing and turning. He ended up getting a clothes hanger out the closet, turning her over his knee and spanking her and then made her go to bed and she cried herself to sleep. She erased the blog post because of some negative comments she got. I guess she can't handle the truth about her husband. Also she kept the blog a secret for months and just recently told him. One of her friends updated and said that her husband would give her a spanking every day for 9 weeks for not telling him. He had given her a limit for how long she could go online which was only an hour. He spanked her for just being upset and in a bad mood and not wanting to cuddle. My wife said with a husband like that she would never want to be touched by him. She had even asked him once about not doing DD for a while but he said NO. That is abuse. When someone doesn't want that lifestyle anymore and the spouse forces it or won't stop it than it does go more into the abuse territory.
I spoil my wife and don't try to hide it. I love her Then there is another blog: http://hermischiefmanaged.blogspot.com/ where my wife left a comment and they put her in spam lol. Cause they can't handle the truth. Again if a man lays a hand on a woman without consent it is ABUSE. But hey if people want to be stupid and allow their husbands to abuse them than they can go ahead. the men would be in jail if it was my wife. this one: http://alovesz.blogspot.com/?zx=cd12fb083bde8b56 thinks it is a husband's God given right also to lead his family and a woman
HAS to submit. And even claims a man can make all the decsions and the wife has to go with them. Like the At&T commercial where the husband signs them up for a family plan and she gets mad. He shouldn't have signed them up first without consulting his wife. And this one: http://tryingtolearnlearningtotry.blogspot.com/ is a lot like Stormy's abusive husband. He gets a kick out of punishing his wife and enjoys it. He doesn't care if he hurts her or she is afraid of discipline. And he is almost as worse as Stormy's husband and should have his ass beat by a real man. Or his wife should get some guts and tell him where he can go. My wife and I would be divorced if I was like any of these men. I thought BabyMan was bad with his wife but these men are even worse. My wife said the women make her sick by allowing the men to do these things. My wife is afraid of a spanking so I could also never ever think of hurting her in this way. I don't even yell when she yells at me. I rather go to hell than cause her any kind of physical pain. Any man who really loves his wife more than himself would never ever hurt her. And spanking hurts regardless of what they say and it is the HUSBAND causing that pain. I think they are trash. Women should stand up to these men and hit back. Any man who wants to boss his wife around is pathetic and needs mental help cause he has problems. No man should be able to boss her around.
On the romantic front of my marriage, I've spent the last few months spoiling my wife even more and always doing a lot of romantic surprises for her. I have cleaned our house, bought her a car, and left notes constantly and text expressing how much she means to me. She does not tell me to do any of these things. I do them myself cause I want her happy. Her being happy is ALL that matters to me. I am a better man than any of those men above. The pics at the beginning of this blog post are pics of some of the romantic things I've done. We went to Virginia Beach and have just gotten closer than I thought possible. Even when we have disagreements, I listen to her and even if she gets mad and yells, we work things out and I NEVER say harsh things to her. All marriages can do it. If a couple has to resort to violence than they need professional help.
One last thing I meant to add is my wife helps pay our cell phone bills and internet bill. She paid the internet bill, she already said if I had made her have a limit on the web, she would have told me "screw you! Then I'm gonna turn off the internet and you won't use it either!" I agree with her. There should never be a limit on the web. If you don't love your spouse enough to spend quality time with them and rather spend more time on the internet than you shouldn't be married. My wife loves me and loves us spending time together cause I am so gentle. If I was anything like those men, she would be afraid and never want to be near me. I would never risk that. And I do have a life, a better marriage than Stormy's husband, or Kay and the others. Because I hate my wife being in pain and do whatever to prevent her being in any kind of physical pain.
