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For our 3rd Christmas together, I've made sure Nic has a wonderful one and Santa spoiled Caleb this year! More later! We are having a white Christmas too!
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Saturday, December 25, 2010
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
The Way U R
This is a song that reminds me of My Beautiful wife:
Just The Way You Are
by Bruno Mars
Oh her eyes , her eyes
Make the stars look like they ’re not shining
Her hair, her hair
Falls perfectly without her trying
She’s so beautiful
And I tell her every day
Yeah I know , I know
When I compliment her
She wont believe me
And its so, its so
Sad to think she don’t see what I see
But every time she asks me do I look okay
I say
When I see your face
There’ s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile ,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are
Her nails , her nails
I could kiss them all day if she ’d let me
Her laugh, her laugh
She hates but I think its so sexy
She’s so beautiful
And I tell her every day
Oh you know , you know , you know
Id never ask you to change
If perfect is what you’re searching for
Then just stay the same
So don’t even bother asking
If you look okay
You know I say
When I see your face
There’ s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile ,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are
The way you are
The way you are
Girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are
When I see your face
There’ s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile ,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are!
Just The Way You Are
by Bruno Mars
Oh her eyes , her eyes
Make the stars look like they ’re not shining
Her hair, her hair
Falls perfectly without her trying
She’s so beautiful
And I tell her every day
Yeah I know , I know
When I compliment her
She wont believe me
And its so, its so
Sad to think she don’t see what I see
But every time she asks me do I look okay
I say
When I see your face
There’ s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile ,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are
Her nails , her nails
I could kiss them all day if she ’d let me
Her laugh, her laugh
She hates but I think its so sexy
She’s so beautiful
And I tell her every day
Oh you know , you know , you know
Id never ask you to change
If perfect is what you’re searching for
Then just stay the same
So don’t even bother asking
If you look okay
You know I say
When I see your face
There’ s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile ,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are
The way you are
The way you are
Girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are
When I see your face
There’ s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile ,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are!
Monday, December 20, 2010
I LOVE WINTER
I kept trying to post a pic with this blog post but the damn thing was being difficult, so maybe later I can get it to work. I've been pretty busy the last month. We celebrated Thanksgiving and I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving Day! We went first to my family's house, my mom had dinner early around 1pm. It wasn't an easy holiday cause it was the first major holiday without my youngest brother Will who died in a car crash last April. I will get into that but for now I rather not. My mom did ok, I caught her upset a few times but I think she tried to be strong for her family. Me and my other younger brother, Andy tried to help her the best we could while dealing with our own internal sadness. It helped just to have Nic by my side. And our son Caleb helped too. He started a food fight and of course Andy had to help our 2 year old. After we ate with my family, Nic and I went to her family's to eat. Her family got together for dinner at her uncle and aunt's house. Her two older brothers and cousins and her mother were all there. We watched the football game and the kids played not so nicely together. It made me realize, I am veerrry happy with my life. I got a beautiful, hot and sexy wife and an adorable son who everyone says looks just like me with his blonde hair and big baby blue eyes. But I think he has his mommy's personality.
After Thanksgiving, on Nov. 28th was Nic's birthday. I made sure it was special for her. I started with a breakfast in bed. I had a card and 2 roses on her food tray. The card stated how much I loved her and named some reasons she was so special to me. We went out to a movie. While we were out, my brother Andy who stays with us helped me set up a romantic surprise. When we got home, there was a candlit dinner in front of our fireplace set up with a bunch of roses and ballons. Andy had followed my instructions and left a trail of battery operated christmas candles and love notes leading to a flower petal filled bubble bath in our garden bath tub. She had tears in her eyes when she saw everything and told me I was soo amazing and she was sooo lucky. The day ended with us making some intense love and she slept pretty damn good afterwards. The only thing that went bad is she got a phone call from her mom after breakfast that hurt her feelings but I was determined not to let anything ruin her day. I am usually always a determined man to make sure she's as happy as she can be. Yes no matter what I have to do. But I will never hurt her.
As for after, she's had some pain in her foot and did go to the doc on her own. He took xrays and said nothing was broken but gave her a ankle brace and another appointment for Dec. 22. He may have to do an MRI. I massage her foot whenever I can. We also had some snow recently that kept us inside for 2 days. I loved those days. She cuddled up in my arms under a blanket by the fire in our den and we watched movies. And well our sex life is never boring and we make love every single day. We find the time for each other no matter what even with work. The only time we are apart is when we work. And sometimes, she stays at my work and watches me work.
It is funny how on my last blog entry I got blasted for some stupid false accusations. I don't have to prove shit to anyone. And as for my wife cheating, well anyone that really knows us knows that is impossible. We are together so much neither of us would have time to cheat. Besides we have both been cheated on by exs and know what it feels like. One woman even suggested to my wife on a blog my commented on that Nic needed a sound spanking. Why? Only because Nic spoke her mind? Good for her! I was happy to read my wife's comments. Besides what would a spanking do? They would only make Nic fearful to speak her mind. And NO way in hell is my wife gonna be afraid of me. Nic doesn't force me to do anything I don't want to do. Yes she is spoiled, but I LOVE spoiling her. It's funny some people don't think I am a true man cause I am romantic to my wife and I put her above me and do whatever I can to make her happy.
I will NEVER be any cause of pain for my wife NO MATTER what she does. And I'm gonna say it again: Men who cause their wives physical pain are not REAL MEN!! And I don't think they truly love their wives. I did playfully spank an ex girlfriend of mine. I got no enjoyment out of it. I did hurt her too and she liked it. I didn't even hit hard and I used my hand and a paddle and my belt, which she begged me to use. She wanted to "role play". She said my hand was by far the most painful implement I used. I wasn't happy to hear that and I wasn't turned on at all by the spanking game. My wife has even offered to let me spank her erotically too, I refused. I will NOT cause her any pain, not even playfully.
She is my world! And why in the world would I use my hands to cause her any kind of pain?? Even if some think for her own good? It would never be good for her. It would tramautize both of us. I would always stop when she wanted me to and if she really said NO I wouldn't do it. She is scared of spanking because of her abuser. I wouldn't do anything that would cause her any pain and make me loose her. It is sad some men rather hurt their wives than loose them. I rather us get divorced than my baby girl ever feeling any pain from me. But despite what others think, Nic and I are BOTH happier than we can express and more in love than any couple I know. Our friends do comment on how we can't keep our hands off each other and how intune to each other's feelings we are. They say we still act like newlyweds. We hardly ever argue. She is my EQUEL she is not below me. And yes I rather be below her than me above her. Fuck what the Bible says about women HAVING to submit to us and us men HAVING to be Head of our wives and children. If that was a law that said I had to discipline my wife when she "didn't" behave then I would go to jail instead. And I don't think men have a right to be ruler and lead over our wives. Condemn me for it if u want, but I don't care. Oh and I don't give a fuck if anybody is sitting around laughing at me, I feel a lot of pity for women who's husbands claim to love them with their whole hearts and then cause them pain. Yes my wife is better than any of those women because she won't allow it and I wouldn't want to do it. So yeah I am a better man.
My wife was brutally abused sexually and phsyically. She still suffers from depression and gets triggers that upset her. No matter what I would NEVER put her in any physical pain to try and help her or pull her out of it! I make sure she doesn't even have nightmares anymore. I start whispering in her ear and singing the song "MY GIRL" to her and telling her she is safe and with "her Josh" which is what she started calling me when we were dating. It stops her nightmare because she stops whimpering or moving around in her sleep and sighs sometimes and snuggles closer in my arms. And me holding her and being attentive to her and making love to her and talking to her has always made her feel better. And guess what? Even if it didn't I still WOULD NOT HURT her!! But my way has always worked.
Now since it's reallly cold, it's my favorite time of the night where I get to go cuddle with my soul mate in my arms tightly and watch some tv or other stuff...
Sometimes she will snuggle in my arms and read a book til about 3am. And no I don't mind and it's pathetic to give her a curfew to make her go to sleep. Sick idiots. Til next time....I'm gonna go pick up my baby girl and carry her upstairs under our warm covers and "hold her tightly all night in my big strong arms" as she says. Although, what we do before that is just as great!
After Thanksgiving, on Nov. 28th was Nic's birthday. I made sure it was special for her. I started with a breakfast in bed. I had a card and 2 roses on her food tray. The card stated how much I loved her and named some reasons she was so special to me. We went out to a movie. While we were out, my brother Andy who stays with us helped me set up a romantic surprise. When we got home, there was a candlit dinner in front of our fireplace set up with a bunch of roses and ballons. Andy had followed my instructions and left a trail of battery operated christmas candles and love notes leading to a flower petal filled bubble bath in our garden bath tub. She had tears in her eyes when she saw everything and told me I was soo amazing and she was sooo lucky. The day ended with us making some intense love and she slept pretty damn good afterwards. The only thing that went bad is she got a phone call from her mom after breakfast that hurt her feelings but I was determined not to let anything ruin her day. I am usually always a determined man to make sure she's as happy as she can be. Yes no matter what I have to do. But I will never hurt her.
As for after, she's had some pain in her foot and did go to the doc on her own. He took xrays and said nothing was broken but gave her a ankle brace and another appointment for Dec. 22. He may have to do an MRI. I massage her foot whenever I can. We also had some snow recently that kept us inside for 2 days. I loved those days. She cuddled up in my arms under a blanket by the fire in our den and we watched movies. And well our sex life is never boring and we make love every single day. We find the time for each other no matter what even with work. The only time we are apart is when we work. And sometimes, she stays at my work and watches me work.
It is funny how on my last blog entry I got blasted for some stupid false accusations. I don't have to prove shit to anyone. And as for my wife cheating, well anyone that really knows us knows that is impossible. We are together so much neither of us would have time to cheat. Besides we have both been cheated on by exs and know what it feels like. One woman even suggested to my wife on a blog my commented on that Nic needed a sound spanking. Why? Only because Nic spoke her mind? Good for her! I was happy to read my wife's comments. Besides what would a spanking do? They would only make Nic fearful to speak her mind. And NO way in hell is my wife gonna be afraid of me. Nic doesn't force me to do anything I don't want to do. Yes she is spoiled, but I LOVE spoiling her. It's funny some people don't think I am a true man cause I am romantic to my wife and I put her above me and do whatever I can to make her happy.
I will NEVER be any cause of pain for my wife NO MATTER what she does. And I'm gonna say it again: Men who cause their wives physical pain are not REAL MEN!! And I don't think they truly love their wives. I did playfully spank an ex girlfriend of mine. I got no enjoyment out of it. I did hurt her too and she liked it. I didn't even hit hard and I used my hand and a paddle and my belt, which she begged me to use. She wanted to "role play". She said my hand was by far the most painful implement I used. I wasn't happy to hear that and I wasn't turned on at all by the spanking game. My wife has even offered to let me spank her erotically too, I refused. I will NOT cause her any pain, not even playfully.
She is my world! And why in the world would I use my hands to cause her any kind of pain?? Even if some think for her own good? It would never be good for her. It would tramautize both of us. I would always stop when she wanted me to and if she really said NO I wouldn't do it. She is scared of spanking because of her abuser. I wouldn't do anything that would cause her any pain and make me loose her. It is sad some men rather hurt their wives than loose them. I rather us get divorced than my baby girl ever feeling any pain from me. But despite what others think, Nic and I are BOTH happier than we can express and more in love than any couple I know. Our friends do comment on how we can't keep our hands off each other and how intune to each other's feelings we are. They say we still act like newlyweds. We hardly ever argue. She is my EQUEL she is not below me. And yes I rather be below her than me above her. Fuck what the Bible says about women HAVING to submit to us and us men HAVING to be Head of our wives and children. If that was a law that said I had to discipline my wife when she "didn't" behave then I would go to jail instead. And I don't think men have a right to be ruler and lead over our wives. Condemn me for it if u want, but I don't care. Oh and I don't give a fuck if anybody is sitting around laughing at me, I feel a lot of pity for women who's husbands claim to love them with their whole hearts and then cause them pain. Yes my wife is better than any of those women because she won't allow it and I wouldn't want to do it. So yeah I am a better man.
My wife was brutally abused sexually and phsyically. She still suffers from depression and gets triggers that upset her. No matter what I would NEVER put her in any physical pain to try and help her or pull her out of it! I make sure she doesn't even have nightmares anymore. I start whispering in her ear and singing the song "MY GIRL" to her and telling her she is safe and with "her Josh" which is what she started calling me when we were dating. It stops her nightmare because she stops whimpering or moving around in her sleep and sighs sometimes and snuggles closer in my arms. And me holding her and being attentive to her and making love to her and talking to her has always made her feel better. And guess what? Even if it didn't I still WOULD NOT HURT her!! But my way has always worked.
Now since it's reallly cold, it's my favorite time of the night where I get to go cuddle with my soul mate in my arms tightly and watch some tv or other stuff...
Sometimes she will snuggle in my arms and read a book til about 3am. And no I don't mind and it's pathetic to give her a curfew to make her go to sleep. Sick idiots. Til next time....I'm gonna go pick up my baby girl and carry her upstairs under our warm covers and "hold her tightly all night in my big strong arms" as she says. Although, what we do before that is just as great!
Saturday, November 13, 2010
Halloween Festivities
I will interrupt my other rambles I had to talk about our Halloween. It was pretty busy. We went to some Haunted Houses and saw a good horror movie called Case 59 and also went to a Halloween party and took our son trick or treating. I was a vampire and she was a burglar lol. She said she decided to be that cause I tell her all the time she stole my heart. She even put on a blonde wig. She sad so our hair matched. I tried to put up pics but for some reason my blog won't let me. If anyone knows how, I'll post pics on the post.
The haunted houses were ok. One I almost punched a Stupid Jason with a chain saw that kept getting too close to my wife. He was almost touching her, I thought they had a no touching policy. The best part of our Halloween besides taking Caleb (our son) trick or treating was when we cuddled on the couch watching horror movies. Caleb was a baby lion. He was sooo adorable! If I can't get pics posted here and anyone wants to see them, you can just add me on facebook at: J_man81@live.com
Halloween is actually one of my favorite holidays. I love watching scary movies with my baby girl. But sometimes certain things in movies trigger her and she tries to hide it but I know her well enough to know when that happens. I think she will go through that for the rest of her life but I will always be there to take away her fear. I have gotten pissed lately with her "so-called" friends have stopped being her friend cause she still deals with her abuse and what happened to her still affects her. They expected her to be over by now since it's been almost 4 yrs. There isn't a time limit on recovery! She makes me feel good when she tells me I am the one who saved her and pulled her from the hole. What hapened to her doesn't affect my love for her. I love her even more for how strong she is even if she doesn't see it.
The week of Halloween, we had a bad storm and a lot of tornado watches. We had to go down to Nic's brother-in-law's mother's house and when Nic got out the car, she stepped in a mud puddle and her knee popped and she fell and sprained her ankle. She cried for me and I was already with her. It always breaks my heart when I see her in pain. I picked her up and it was raining soo hard and the wind was blowing bad. I didn't stop telling corny jokes til I got her to laugh. When we got home, I iced her ankle and massaged it. She says every time she's in pain and if we make love, her pain seems to vanish, so I made love to her. Afterward, she sighed contently and curled up tightly in my arms cuddling my right hand under her chin. She didn't seem to be in pain for the time being. She didn't want to go to the doc the next day and I didn't force her. Her ankle was sore and swelled some and bruised but she could move her toes. Her older sister works at a doc's office and told her it sounded like a sprain and the docs couldn't do anything but prescribe pain meds and wrap it in an ace bandage. She still had some pain meds left from where she had a knee injury a few months ago so we kept it elevated and iced and I waited on her even more. She said I was her doctor Josh and I was happy I made her feel better and I love taking care of her. She does have her days where she goes into herself and is quiet and tries not to cry and is just so depressed. But unlike certain cruel husbands who don't care about hurting their wives more and spank them to "pull them out", I pull my wife out by loving her. I would never, No Matter what. hurt her to try to get her out of a depression. Even if what I do now didn't work. That's NOT love. You NEVER physically hurt the woman you love. And it's even worse when the man can do it and not care that it hurts their wife! I took off work for four days to care for my wife's sprained ankle and if she had needed me more than it would've been longer. Four days later, it was a lot easier for her to walk.
So that's why it's taken me so long to get back to my blog. But I realize blogging helps me. I have always expressed my feelings to my wife easy but to others it's sometimes hard. But I like speaking my mind and blogging does help to clear my head. And I have a lot in my head right now, it's just getting time to get it out.
I found a blog where a man scared his wife out of smoking by whipping her with his belt and leaving bruises and welts on her and threatening to do it again if she picked up another cigarette. I wanted to beat the shit of that ass! And my wife said she was horrified the wife allowed it and didn't leave him. I'd be lucky if when I was sleeping my wife didn't srangle me with the belt if I was him. But our marriage would have definately been over had I done that. LoL if he had my wife for a day, he would be in jail for abuse cause she would really rebell against everything he "ordered". I love my wife!! She IS my life. And I have a lot more opinions on that issue but she's done reading some of the book she's been reading and poked her lower lip out and asked didn't I wanna cuddle and winked. Oh I always wanna cuddle with her but we rarely JUST cuddle... Night!!
The haunted houses were ok. One I almost punched a Stupid Jason with a chain saw that kept getting too close to my wife. He was almost touching her, I thought they had a no touching policy. The best part of our Halloween besides taking Caleb (our son) trick or treating was when we cuddled on the couch watching horror movies. Caleb was a baby lion. He was sooo adorable! If I can't get pics posted here and anyone wants to see them, you can just add me on facebook at: J_man81@live.com
Halloween is actually one of my favorite holidays. I love watching scary movies with my baby girl. But sometimes certain things in movies trigger her and she tries to hide it but I know her well enough to know when that happens. I think she will go through that for the rest of her life but I will always be there to take away her fear. I have gotten pissed lately with her "so-called" friends have stopped being her friend cause she still deals with her abuse and what happened to her still affects her. They expected her to be over by now since it's been almost 4 yrs. There isn't a time limit on recovery! She makes me feel good when she tells me I am the one who saved her and pulled her from the hole. What hapened to her doesn't affect my love for her. I love her even more for how strong she is even if she doesn't see it.
The week of Halloween, we had a bad storm and a lot of tornado watches. We had to go down to Nic's brother-in-law's mother's house and when Nic got out the car, she stepped in a mud puddle and her knee popped and she fell and sprained her ankle. She cried for me and I was already with her. It always breaks my heart when I see her in pain. I picked her up and it was raining soo hard and the wind was blowing bad. I didn't stop telling corny jokes til I got her to laugh. When we got home, I iced her ankle and massaged it. She says every time she's in pain and if we make love, her pain seems to vanish, so I made love to her. Afterward, she sighed contently and curled up tightly in my arms cuddling my right hand under her chin. She didn't seem to be in pain for the time being. She didn't want to go to the doc the next day and I didn't force her. Her ankle was sore and swelled some and bruised but she could move her toes. Her older sister works at a doc's office and told her it sounded like a sprain and the docs couldn't do anything but prescribe pain meds and wrap it in an ace bandage. She still had some pain meds left from where she had a knee injury a few months ago so we kept it elevated and iced and I waited on her even more. She said I was her doctor Josh and I was happy I made her feel better and I love taking care of her. She does have her days where she goes into herself and is quiet and tries not to cry and is just so depressed. But unlike certain cruel husbands who don't care about hurting their wives more and spank them to "pull them out", I pull my wife out by loving her. I would never, No Matter what. hurt her to try to get her out of a depression. Even if what I do now didn't work. That's NOT love. You NEVER physically hurt the woman you love. And it's even worse when the man can do it and not care that it hurts their wife! I took off work for four days to care for my wife's sprained ankle and if she had needed me more than it would've been longer. Four days later, it was a lot easier for her to walk.
So that's why it's taken me so long to get back to my blog. But I realize blogging helps me. I have always expressed my feelings to my wife easy but to others it's sometimes hard. But I like speaking my mind and blogging does help to clear my head. And I have a lot in my head right now, it's just getting time to get it out.
I found a blog where a man scared his wife out of smoking by whipping her with his belt and leaving bruises and welts on her and threatening to do it again if she picked up another cigarette. I wanted to beat the shit of that ass! And my wife said she was horrified the wife allowed it and didn't leave him. I'd be lucky if when I was sleeping my wife didn't srangle me with the belt if I was him. But our marriage would have definately been over had I done that. LoL if he had my wife for a day, he would be in jail for abuse cause she would really rebell against everything he "ordered". I love my wife!! She IS my life. And I have a lot more opinions on that issue but she's done reading some of the book she's been reading and poked her lower lip out and asked didn't I wanna cuddle and winked. Oh I always wanna cuddle with her but we rarely JUST cuddle... Night!!
Friday, October 15, 2010
Not So Quick Ramble
Men who physically hurt their wives and think they have the right to tell their wife what to do and control them are not REAL MEN!! They are stupid and really should get their asses beat by a real man! Let me tell you something I would hope my wife would kick my ass if I ever tried to tell her what to do or yes even spank her! Every woman should do that to their husbands who don't love them enough to never physically hurt them! Oh and give them praise when they obey? WTF? Our wives are not dogs!! My wife would be very insulted if I praised and said "I am very proud of you for being good and obeying." She is not my pet! And to "girl up"? Why don't some men "man up" and stop being afraid of independent bossy women? Women are actually mentally stonget and wiser than a lot of us men! If I told my wife take your meds or get me something spank you with then she would say get it your damn sef and then walk right out and to divorce court. I understand why some women ask for a man to be in control but I will never understand how a man can tell his wife he will be in control and just spank her and cause her pain and not feel bad about it! If you really feel bad about causing pain then you just don't do it. I would really love to see these women put the asses in their place and show who is really the boss. That is the woman! (and in this paragragh everyone may know who I'm talking about but hey if not then I am not afraid to say the name) The sadistic preacher who loves hurting his wife, macho asshole.
They can easily go to the cops if they really don't want a spanking and you did it anyway. My wife would even though she loves me just to show me it isn't right that I forced her. That is why my wife's ex got a beat down after she finally got him back for for forcing her to submit.
Once Nic asked me could she go out with friends. I just really wanted to spend a night with her just us, so I said "no you can't go." she got pissed and told me "well too bad I am going anyway and if you don't like it then get over it. Only way you can stop me is by spanking me and you how I am terrified of them" I know she is terrified of them. And I would NEVER hurt her like that no matter what. It would kill me inside too. So I told her she could go. She smiled then and kissed me and told me she would be back later. Well she went out the door but about 2 mins later she came back. She said she wasn't going and wanted to stay with me. She said she saw how I really wanted to spand alone time with her so she stayed for me, for us. We had an amazing night, I made it so she didn't regret not going out. She was happy. I think she was testing me and I know I passed. Had I spanked her, yeah she would hagve stayed but she would have only been staying out of fear and pain. My hands are pretty big and strong from my work and the army so honestly I know they would hurt worse than an implement. My swear to her is: "my hands are GENTLE 4EVER AND EVER AND STRONG BIG AND PROTECTIVE AND THEY ARE SHELTER BECAUSE THEY COVER YOURS. I would never use them cause her pain.
I even stop doctors from hurting her. If she has to have bloodwork well they better give her something to not feel the needle cause I will not let anything or anyone hurt her. If I hurt her I would just turn around and do whatever I could to make the pan stop. I do that now when she is hurt. So how would spanking her do any good if I would just make the pain stop? I would feel like someone punched me in the heart if she was in pain from me.
The reason some women submit to their husbands is for fear of the pain of them spanking them or they see it makes their husbands happy to spank them. Although to intentionally want to inflict pain on the love your life is uncomprehendible to me. Erotic is one thing but for punishment? I agree with the ones who are on the DD forum I mainly post on that do it because it relieves stress and its not because the wife "misbehaved". I wouldn't even hit my dog with a newspaper so why in the hell would I my wife? I would laugh if the wife beat the shit out of the husband right back they would deserve it. Us men are not above our wives and not too good or superior to be punished either.
If you truly love your wife you will never hurt her no matter what. We are supposed to love them more than ourselves. Well I do and my wife gets whatever she wants from me. That is how a real man treats his wife! I will continue this later. I want to go seduce my wife. We had a great date night and my mother has our toddler son for the night so..... ;)
Oh and we taught our son to hit back anyone who hits him. Including his grandparents who think it is their right to swat him. My mother was warned if she tried to swat him if he misbehaved then she would never her grandson ever again. And he bit her hand back for smacking his hand for trying to touch the stove and we praised him for it. Only bad parents who don't really care about causing their children pain hit them and those people should never be blessed with children! Yep I said it. Bad parents spank and don't really love their kids enough to learn other non-physical ways to discipline. My son could hit me and I will never hit him back. Anyway...more later.
I got the candles lit and the romantic cd (my main song for her is "My Girl") I made playing for her and I think shes got all my little romantic love notes I left around the house for her. Sooo...gotta go for now! And a little something else about me: I was my wife's first lover. She gave me her virginity, I didn't even hurt her then! She felt no pain when I first made love to her and she was afraid it would hurt because all her female friends and family told her their 1st time hurt bad. But she said she was amazed at how passionate and intense I was and she didn't even feel a tiny pinch! No pain at all! Although, since we went from good childhood friends to lovers , she went through the feeling akward afterwards. But we got through that and got married! So that was the biggest praise and compliment she gave me then she was so happy she gave her virginity to me and hoe amazed she was that it was so wonderful and 0 pain!
They can easily go to the cops if they really don't want a spanking and you did it anyway. My wife would even though she loves me just to show me it isn't right that I forced her. That is why my wife's ex got a beat down after she finally got him back for for forcing her to submit.
Once Nic asked me could she go out with friends. I just really wanted to spend a night with her just us, so I said "no you can't go." she got pissed and told me "well too bad I am going anyway and if you don't like it then get over it. Only way you can stop me is by spanking me and you how I am terrified of them" I know she is terrified of them. And I would NEVER hurt her like that no matter what. It would kill me inside too. So I told her she could go. She smiled then and kissed me and told me she would be back later. Well she went out the door but about 2 mins later she came back. She said she wasn't going and wanted to stay with me. She said she saw how I really wanted to spand alone time with her so she stayed for me, for us. We had an amazing night, I made it so she didn't regret not going out. She was happy. I think she was testing me and I know I passed. Had I spanked her, yeah she would hagve stayed but she would have only been staying out of fear and pain. My hands are pretty big and strong from my work and the army so honestly I know they would hurt worse than an implement. My swear to her is: "my hands are GENTLE 4EVER AND EVER AND STRONG BIG AND PROTECTIVE AND THEY ARE SHELTER BECAUSE THEY COVER YOURS. I would never use them cause her pain.
I even stop doctors from hurting her. If she has to have bloodwork well they better give her something to not feel the needle cause I will not let anything or anyone hurt her. If I hurt her I would just turn around and do whatever I could to make the pan stop. I do that now when she is hurt. So how would spanking her do any good if I would just make the pain stop? I would feel like someone punched me in the heart if she was in pain from me.
The reason some women submit to their husbands is for fear of the pain of them spanking them or they see it makes their husbands happy to spank them. Although to intentionally want to inflict pain on the love your life is uncomprehendible to me. Erotic is one thing but for punishment? I agree with the ones who are on the DD forum I mainly post on that do it because it relieves stress and its not because the wife "misbehaved". I wouldn't even hit my dog with a newspaper so why in the hell would I my wife? I would laugh if the wife beat the shit out of the husband right back they would deserve it. Us men are not above our wives and not too good or superior to be punished either.
If you truly love your wife you will never hurt her no matter what. We are supposed to love them more than ourselves. Well I do and my wife gets whatever she wants from me. That is how a real man treats his wife! I will continue this later. I want to go seduce my wife. We had a great date night and my mother has our toddler son for the night so..... ;)
Oh and we taught our son to hit back anyone who hits him. Including his grandparents who think it is their right to swat him. My mother was warned if she tried to swat him if he misbehaved then she would never her grandson ever again. And he bit her hand back for smacking his hand for trying to touch the stove and we praised him for it. Only bad parents who don't really care about causing their children pain hit them and those people should never be blessed with children! Yep I said it. Bad parents spank and don't really love their kids enough to learn other non-physical ways to discipline. My son could hit me and I will never hit him back. Anyway...more later.
I got the candles lit and the romantic cd (my main song for her is "My Girl") I made playing for her and I think shes got all my little romantic love notes I left around the house for her. Sooo...gotta go for now! And a little something else about me: I was my wife's first lover. She gave me her virginity, I didn't even hurt her then! She felt no pain when I first made love to her and she was afraid it would hurt because all her female friends and family told her their 1st time hurt bad. But she said she was amazed at how passionate and intense I was and she didn't even feel a tiny pinch! No pain at all! Although, since we went from good childhood friends to lovers , she went through the feeling akward afterwards. But we got through that and got married! So that was the biggest praise and compliment she gave me then she was so happy she gave her virginity to me and hoe amazed she was that it was so wonderful and 0 pain!
Thursday, October 7, 2010
Introduction
This is just a little about why I decided to start posting and some about me. I recently found some blogs where I stated my opinion and I did think I was pretty respectful but apparently the author didn't agree with me. I feel like if you can't take some critizism then don't post anything because everyone won't agree with you but yes you can state opinions in a respctful way. My comments weren't approved only because I didn't agree with the author's husband's way of doing things. But that will be in another blog itself. I have a lot to say on that. But first some about who I am:
I have been married to my soul mate for two years now. Nicole (Nic) and I met through her older brother Kris. She and Kris are only 11 months apart. I met Kris in 1st grade. His little sister was the opposite of him. He was outgoing and she was shy and quiet until she got mad then the girl had a ferocious temper (still does lol). Kris and I realized we only live a block from each other but I mainly spent more time at his house because mine was a war zone. My dad was strict, controlling and abusive to my younger brother William and me and also to my mother. She would try and protect us and get hit herself. Although Will only got hit once because I made it my job to protect him. When my dad got mad at how we "misbehaved" he would use either his hand or his belt then his fist. He would make me take down my pants and underwear and beat me. I did become fearful but as I grew older I only became angry at him. When he tried to hit my brother when he was 7 and I was 14, I got up in his face and told him he would have to go through me first. Well he tried but I hit back and we fought. I am proud to say I kicked the sorry bastard's ass. When I was 16 he left us. Walked out to go to work and didn't come home. He showed up just two years ago but hell no I won't ever forgive him.
I now think it is wrong for any parent to hit their kid for ANY reason. Yes even a little swat is wrong and should be illegal. You really do not have to hit a kid to teach them even a toddler. Yes I know technically a little swat is not abuse but I think it is still wrong. Even when my son now tried to touch the stove or when he ran out towards the road we did not swat him. We used non-physical discipline to teach. He is also not one of the docile quiet easy kids either. He has his mother's rebellious, head strong personality. But we took time to learn how to teach and discipline without ever laying a hand on our son. Is it easy? nope. But we love him more than anything to never cause him pain from us. Even if he doesn't always listen right away or even the 2nd or 3rd time. But once he realizes his mother means no and won't give in he listens. I am more likely to give in so I have to walk away and let her be the firm one.
If you have read this far then thank you. I just now realized the time when Nic told me she was going to sleep and was I coming. So I will finish this tomorrow. Good night all.
I have been married to my soul mate for two years now. Nicole (Nic) and I met through her older brother Kris. She and Kris are only 11 months apart. I met Kris in 1st grade. His little sister was the opposite of him. He was outgoing and she was shy and quiet until she got mad then the girl had a ferocious temper (still does lol). Kris and I realized we only live a block from each other but I mainly spent more time at his house because mine was a war zone. My dad was strict, controlling and abusive to my younger brother William and me and also to my mother. She would try and protect us and get hit herself. Although Will only got hit once because I made it my job to protect him. When my dad got mad at how we "misbehaved" he would use either his hand or his belt then his fist. He would make me take down my pants and underwear and beat me. I did become fearful but as I grew older I only became angry at him. When he tried to hit my brother when he was 7 and I was 14, I got up in his face and told him he would have to go through me first. Well he tried but I hit back and we fought. I am proud to say I kicked the sorry bastard's ass. When I was 16 he left us. Walked out to go to work and didn't come home. He showed up just two years ago but hell no I won't ever forgive him.
I now think it is wrong for any parent to hit their kid for ANY reason. Yes even a little swat is wrong and should be illegal. You really do not have to hit a kid to teach them even a toddler. Yes I know technically a little swat is not abuse but I think it is still wrong. Even when my son now tried to touch the stove or when he ran out towards the road we did not swat him. We used non-physical discipline to teach. He is also not one of the docile quiet easy kids either. He has his mother's rebellious, head strong personality. But we took time to learn how to teach and discipline without ever laying a hand on our son. Is it easy? nope. But we love him more than anything to never cause him pain from us. Even if he doesn't always listen right away or even the 2nd or 3rd time. But once he realizes his mother means no and won't give in he listens. I am more likely to give in so I have to walk away and let her be the firm one.
If you have read this far then thank you. I just now realized the time when Nic told me she was going to sleep and was I coming. So I will finish this tomorrow. Good night all.
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